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About the job

About who needs care: He's 500+lbs he can't move, he's been this way for about 5 months, I went to see him he said he's been sitting for days bcuz he can't move.. so I don't know what to do to encourage him to get medical help, he doesn't work anymore. He lives alone upstairs in an apartment. Im 67 yrs old and I have medical issues myself.. I also live in an apartment up stairs... my son is alone, he urinated on himself, my husband and I tried to get him up, but he fell down, we called 911, the came out and lifted him up twice bcuz he fell again, they even tried to convince him that he needs to get some medical assistance, but again he refused. He apartment is not in good living condition anymore, he's very depressed. So he's embarrassed about his condition right now.. he can't move anything... his stomach and legs are very discolored, and very hard and large... its so sad.. he needs lots of help... please let me know what can be done for him. He's sitting in soiled clothes.. he leaves the front door open bcuz he can't get up and open it for anyone, that unsafe for him.. please Help Me.. My Son Needs Medical Care Now... About the care needs: At this moment for my 40yr old Son, he needs everything bcuz he can't move to do anything for himself... Services needed include: transportation, meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, feeding, bathing / dressing, and mobility assistance.