19 gifts for new moms that aren’t for the baby

Check out some of the best gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby and focus on mom's joy and well-being instead.

19 gifts for new moms that aren’t for the baby

Getting presents — necessary or not — is part of being a new mom. Even without a baby shower, family, friends and other well-wishers want to gift mom and baby.

There are many ways to help a new mom if you live nearby, but if you’d rather give her some space by dropping off or mailing a gift, here are some of the best gifts for new moms — and yes, we’re talking about the kinds of gifts for new moms that aren’t for the baby (chances are they have enough onesies!).

Gifts for new moms that offer rest and relaxation

1. The perfect cozy blanket

lola blanket in rosewater
Image via Lola Blankets

New moms deserve to feel comfy and cozy and need to make the most of any moment they get to relax, which is why a super-luxe Lola blanket is a must. The unbelievably soft blanket, which comes in a range of colors from soothing Sky Blue to rich and regal Vintage Violet, puts other faux fur options to shame. If you choose the warm blush color Rosewater, 10% of proceeds go directly to breast cancer research.

Where to buy: Lola Blanket (starting at $249 for Medium, Lola Blankets)

2. Bag of essentials

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby
Image via Rifle Paper

Fill a cute zipper pouch with all the things a new mom needs to have on hand. She can keep it bedside or next to the couch or chair where she feeds the baby. Include essentials like lip and hand moisturizer, mints or hard candies, a sleep mask (one can dream), and, if she’s breastfeeding, some nipple balm or lactation cookies

Where to buy: Large Cosmetic Pouch ($58, Rifle Paper)

3. A fragrance that takes her on a mini getaway

OUAI fragrances santorini and ibiza
Image via OUAI

Finding your groove with a newborn means you probably aren’t using your passport anytime super-soon, but you can give a new mom a pick-me-up fragrance that feels like a sun-soaked rendezvous. Consider OUAI’s Fragrance Mists, which are meant for both hair and skin and come in a range of scents reminiscent of glitzy, warm locales. Their two latest iterations: Santorini, a blend of peach, honeysuckle and amber musk, and Ibiza, which features notes of sugar, cocoa, vanilla and rum.

Where to buy: OUAI Santorini and Ibiza Fragrance Mists ($28, OUAI)

4. Date night at home package

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby
Image via Apple

Wrap up a gift card for a new streaming movie (or a streaming subscription like Apple TV or Netflix), popcorn, Red Vines and a bottle of wine or sparkling cider for the new parents to enjoy while little one sleeps (and eats and sleeps and eats … ).

Where to buy: Apple Gift Card (choose your denomination, Apple); Netflix Gift Card ($30+, Amazon)

5. At-home manicure set

Image via Olive and June

Gift mom a really cool at-home manicure kit (splurge for the $8 Dry Drops add-on, which promises to cut dry time in half!) so she can do some simple self-care between feedings.

Where to buy: Mani System (starting at $55, Olive and June)

6. Spa day

Give your nanny a spa gift certificate

This will help mom get away when she’s ready. Offer to pick her up and drive her home after she’s done. Better yet, offer to watch the baby for the time she’s at the spa.

7. A fuss-free makeup and skincare bundle

Image via ILIA

Treat a new mom to a bundle of brightening, clean skin care pick-me-ups with this collection of ILIA’s bestselling essentials, featuring products for hydration, SPF, color and lashes.

Where to buy: ILIA The Hero Set ($146, ILIA Beauty)

8. Chic diaper bag

Image via Mia + Sophia

A diaper bag backpack that doubles as a laptop bag (and is actually really stylish) is one of the best gifts for new moms, because they’ll use it so much. The entire Mia + Sophia line fits the bill, with the sophisticated Sophia style designed with both form and function in mind, featuring 15 pockets that can hold everything from tablets and toys to diapers and wipes.

Where to buy: Mia + Sophia The Sophia Diaper Bag ($185, Mia + Sophia)

9. Bedside sleep guide

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby
Image via Target

Together with the free companion app, personalize your own science-backed sleep routine to fall asleep, stay asleep and wake up gently. Its customizable soft glow and sounds of nature or white noise could be a lifesaver for a mom with a screaming baby.

Where to buy: Hatch Restore 3 ($170, Hatch)

Sustenance (and caffeine)

10. Prepared meals

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby

Though they’re busy feeding the baby, everybody’s got to eat! Prepare some balanced dinner meals that are easily frozen and put in the oven or a slow cooker — low cost and a timesaver.

11. Gift cards for meal delivery

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Image via Door Dash

Give mom a hot meal (or a cold milkshake!) by dropping off a gift card to her favorite food delivery and takeout service, like DoorDash or Uber Eats. Whether it’s pizza or Chinese, it removes the hassle of cooking and driving. Meals (or desserts!) come ready-to-eat, delivered right to the door, which is music to the ears of an exhausted, sleep-deprived new parent. 

Where to buy: Door Dash Gift Card or Uber Eats Gift Card (choose your denomination)

12. An elevated serve coffee maker for cafe-style brews

Image via Keurig

You know she’ll need more caffeine than usual, and the latest Keurig Single Serve Coffee Maker takes a DIY cup to the next level by using an innovative PressureInfusion Technology™ to make an energy-boosting cup that boasts fancy cafe-style crema (those yummy, silky bubbles ontop of your fave brew).

Where to buy: K-Crema™ High Pressure Coffee Maker ($219.99, Keurig)

Home help

13. Roomba

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby
Image via iRobot

Vacuuming and mopping are chores easily left behind when focusing on a new baby. Fortunately, the combo Roomba vacuums go automatically on a set schedule, so new parents can set and forget.

Where to buy: Roomba Combo i5 Robot Vacuum and Mop ($350, iRobot)

14. Housecleaning services

woman making extra cash house cleaning

When there’s an infant in the house, chores and tasks can become overwhelming for everyone. The gift of housecleaning not only helps out mom but partners, too. “My husband does a lot of the cleaning around the house, but when our daughter was born, this became a burden to him, which just became more stress for me,” says mom of two Kelsey Moore, of Orlando, Florida. “He wanted a clean house but was too tired to clean. Being able to use a cleaning service solved this problem.”

15. Errand runner

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby

Offering your own time to assist with errands (grocery store, library, dry cleaner, donation drop-off) once a week is not only free, but one of the best gifts for new moms.

Special treats

16. Subscription boxes

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby
Image via UrbanStems

No matter whether she’s a fan of food, books or geek culture, there’s a subscription box she’ll enjoy. Getting new items on a monthly basis excites anyone, but new moms may appreciate these little surprises even more.

Here are a few cool subscription boxes to try, depending on the recipient:

17. Blooming tea

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby
Image via Art of Tea

If mom’s more a tea gal, she’ll delight in this blooming tea. When you’re busy with a newborn, it’s the small, simple pleasures that can be most meaningful.

Where to buy: Halo Blooming Tea ($39 for 10 bulbs, Art of Tea)

18. Super-cozy loungewear

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby
Image via Lands’ End

Every new mom deserves some luxe wears to relax in, especially during those first weeks with a new baby. All that matters  is they’re loose, soft and machine washable. 

Where to buy: Cozy 3-Piece Pajama Set in Regular Size , Plus, Petite and Tall, too ($90, Lands’ End)

19. Girls’ night out

Gifts for new moms that aren't for the baby

Want to help her de-stress and get away? Plan a girls’ night out with some close friends, like a trip to the theater or local watering hole. Some new moms may even welcome an in-home getaway if everyone else brings the food.

Additional reporting by Sheri Reed

Maressa Brown

Expertise:
Parenting, Health/Wellness, General Lifestyle

Education:
BS in Journalism, Emerson College

Highlights:
• Care Senior Editor
• Author of "Mercury Magic: How to Thrive During Retrogrades and Tap Into the Power of the Messenger Planet All Year Long" (Workman 2024) and “Raising Baby by the Stars: A New Parent’s Guide to Astrology” (Artisan 2023)
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Maressa Brown is a seasoned, Los Angeles-based journalist, writer and editor who has written parenting, pop culture and general lifestyle content for nearly two decades. In addition to serving as senior editor for Care, her writing appears on Yahoo, Parents, SELF, Washington Post, InStyle, Shape, What to Expect digital, PopSugar and many other outlets. Brown is a member of the Authors Guild and the American Society of Journalists and Authors (ASJA). She is the author of "Mercury Magic: How to Thrive During Retrogrades and Tap Into the Power of the Messenger Planet All Year Long" (Workman 2024) and “Raising Baby by the Stars: A New Parent’s Guide to Astrology” (Artisan 2023).