I have been in health care for almost 20 years! Most of the time in nursing homes and rehab. I loved every day of it. They all have a unique story to tell! Not one day is the same as the next. It requires patience, love and repetition to help keep them calm. I've worked with dementia and special needs elderly and I care for your loved one m, try and keep their brain active , light house keeping such as dishes, sweeping or laundry.