About who needs care: He cannot feel his hands or feet so he cannot drive, dress himself, or bath himself. My mother is his caretaker at this time, however, she is 88 and it's wearing on her. She does not drive. We need someone to come over at 7 to get him dressed, on some days shower him, and maybe twice a week take them to get groceries, mail, dump, and occasional doctor appointments. He can walk with his cane with assistance. Services needed include: transportation, feeding, and bathing / dressing.