How reminiscence therapy can transform the way you support a loved one with dementia

Learn how reminiscence therapy uses photos, music and familiar objects to help people with dementia access positive memories, reduce anxiety and maintain their sense of identity.

How reminiscence therapy can transform the way you support a loved one with dementia

When your mom can’t remember what she had for breakfast but lights up talking about her wedding day, you’re witnessing the power of reminiscence therapy in action. This gentle, non-pharmacological approach helps people with dementia reconnect with meaningful memories from their past, offering comfort, joy and a renewed sense of self.

“Reminiscence therapy is simply finding ways to bring a person’s good memories back into the present so they can enjoy them again,” explains Martha Pack, a registered occupational therapist and Certified Dementia Practitioner with Adapt & Stay, LLC. “Even when someone can’t remember what happened five minutes ago, they may light up when they see an old wedding photo, hear a favorite song or talk about a family tradition.”

The beauty of this approach lies in its accessibility — you don’t need special training or expensive equipment to help your loved one access these preserved memories. Whether you’re a family caregiver looking for ways to connect or considering memory care options, understanding reminiscence therapy can transform how you support someone navigating cognitive decline.

Key takeaways

  • Reminiscence therapy taps into long-term memories to foster joy, connection, and identity in people with dementia.
  • Simple sensory triggers like music, scents and photos can effectively unlock vivid, positive memories from the past.
  • Sharing memories can strengthen relationships, improve mood and boost self-esteem.
  • While it’s not a cure, reminiscence therapy can ease anxiety, agitation and confusion without medication, creating a calmer, more alert mental state.

What is reminiscence therapy?

Reminiscence therapy is a non-pharmacological approach that invites individuals — often older adults or people with dementia — to recall and share meaningful memories from their past using prompts like photos, music or familiar objects. The goal isn’t memory accuracy; it’s emotional connection, identity reinforcement and comfort.

“Reminiscence therapy is a type of therapy that combines a sensory cue with a memory to strengthen that memory and encourages people to remember and share past experiences,” says Dr. Seetha Bhagavatula, a board-certified geriatrician at Remo Health. “This approach is especially beneficial for people with dementia. It may not reverse memory loss or reduce disease progression, but it does a great deal to improve mood, engagement and quality of life.”

How does reminiscence therapy stimulate memory?

The science behind reminiscence therapy reveals why it’s so effective for people with dementia. “People store different types of memories in different parts of the brain,” explains Bhagavatula. “The hippocampus is the part of the brain we use to form new short-term memories. In people with dementia, particularly in Alzheimer’s disease, the hippocampus is one of the first areas to show significant damage.”

However, long-term memories are stored differently. “Long-term memories, especially those that are emotionally significant, recalled many times or carry a sense of nostalgia are stored in our brains throughout the cortex, the brain’s outer layer,” Bhagavatula says. “When we use reminiscence therapy, we are effectively bypassing the damaged ‘new memory’ center and directly target the more resilient ‘long-term storage’ areas.”

Pack describes witnessing this phenomenon firsthand: “I’ve watched people go from looking lost to suddenly sitting up, smiling and even adding little details about the memory that they haven’t shared in years. It’s like the brain gets a little jolt of recognition that feels good.”

How to access positive memories with reminiscence therapy

The key to successful reminiscence therapy lies in choosing the right sensory triggers to unlock positive recollections. “In my experience, the types of sensory prompts that work best vary from person to person based on their unique life experience, interests and hobbies,” Bhagavatula says.

Here are some common and effective sensory cues:

Music

Pack notes that songs from a person’s teens or early adulthood can unlock emotion instantly. “It’s amazing how quickly a tune can bring back emotion,” she says.

Bhagavatula shares a personal example: “My own grandfather had advanced Alzheimer’s dementia and he couldn’t speak by the end. However, music was something that helped him tap into his memory despite being mostly non-verbal. Much to our surprise, he was able to finish a song my mother was singing in the kitchen after years of not saying a word!”

Scents 

“The smell of fresh-baked bread, coffee brewing, or a favorite perfume can take someone right back to a certain time or place,” Pack observes. 

Bhagavatula adds, “Sometimes, smell can be used as well to unlock memories because a familiar or distinct perfume or a detergent scent help a person remember a different time and experience.”

Visual cues

Photographs are a reliable pathway to positive memories. Pack recommends creating scrapbooks together: “Picking out the photos, writing a little note under each one, and talking about the stories behind them often leads to smiles, laughter and little moments of connection.”

Touch

Holding a familiar or beloved object can spark joyful memories. “I’ve had clients hold a quilt their grandmother made or a piece of jewelry they wore on special occasions, and it often opens the door to conversation,” Pack says.

“Happy memories tend to bring the body and mind into balance. … It’s like exercise for the mind without the stress or frustration that can come with other activities.”

— Martha Pack, a registered occupational therapist

How reminiscence therapy can promote social interaction

One of the most meaningful benefits of reminiscence therapy is how it transforms social connections, turning potentially awkward visits into rich conversations filled with shared stories and laughter.

“Reminiscence therapy gives people something positive to talk about that doesn’t feel like a memory test,” Pack explains. “I’ve seen it turn a quiet, tense visit into one filled with easy conversation. In group settings, it can get people sharing similar experiences like stories from school, work, or raising families.”

This creates opportunities for families to deepen relationships even as dementia progresses. 

“Hearing a family member’s stories provides a window into who they were before their memory loss and helps the person living with dementia strengthen their own memory,” Bhagavatula says. “Memory sharing doesn’t necessarily have to be about significant milestones; it can often focus on something mundane but beautiful, like a song you sang with your children when they were little or a song you danced to with your partner in the kitchen.”

How reminiscence therapy can improve self-esteem

For people navigating the losses that come with dementia, reminiscence therapy offers a powerful antidote to diminished confidence by reconnecting them with their accomplishments and core identity.

“When dementia starts to take away everyday abilities, it can really affect confidence,” shares Pack. “Talking about past roles — being a parent, running a business, serving in the military — reminds people of the full, rich lives they’ve led. I’ve seen someone’s whole posture change when they start telling a story about teaching a class, winning an award or raising their kids.”

Bhagavatula points to how this addresses one of dementia’s most profound challenges: “Losing a sense of self and identity in dementia is a very profound and difficult challenge for people living with dementia. Reminiscence therapy puts the person living with dementia back into the driver’s seat as the protagonist of their story.”

The validation that comes from listening to or sharing their story can be deeply empowering and reassuring. Pack notes: “It’s a way of saying, ‘I am still that person.’”

How reminiscence therapy might reduce symptoms of dementia

While reminiscence therapy isn’t a cure for dementia, it can significantly ease challenging symptoms like agitation, anxiety, confusion and depression through natural, medication-free interventions.

“Anxiety, agitation and confusion in those with cognitive decline often stem from feeling lost in the present moment and not in control,” Bhagavatula explains. “Reminiscence therapy counteracts this by anchoring them in the safety of their memories.”

Pack has witnessed these calming effects repeatedly: “I’ve had clients go from pacing or wringing their hands to sitting calmly once we start looking at old photos or talking about a favorite trip. Familiar memories can create a sense of safety, which often brings the anxiety level down and helps reorient them to a more peaceful state.”

The therapy creates what experts describe as a relaxed yet alert mental state. “Happy memories tend to bring the body and mind into balance,” Pack explains. “I’ve seen shoulders drop, facial tension ease and breathing slow down. At the same time, the brain is still engaged — talking, laughing or even singing along. It’s like exercise for the mind without the stress or frustration that can come with other activities.”

Bhagavatula shares a compelling example from her practice: “[I had a patient who was] a retired chemistry professor diagnosed with dementia. Whenever he would get confused at the day program, I would discuss his research with him, bring up a paper that he had written, and discuss it with him. Even though it had been years since he worked on the research we discussed, he would see his paper and remember.”

Getting started: Simple ways to begin reminiscence therapy at home

One of the best things about reminiscence therapy is how easy it is to weave into everyday life — you can start incorporating these techniques into your caregiving routine today, without special training or equipment.

Bhagavatula reassures families, “The ability to link a sensory cue with a memory is just as powerful when done with a loved one as with a professional.”

Keep it simple

Pack emphasizes keeping the approach simple: “Keep it light and natural. You don’t have to plan a ‘therapy session’ — sometimes the best moments happen in the middle of making tea or folding laundry.”

Take it slow

Be patient and follow their lead. “Don’t quiz or push for details,” Pack advises. “If they can’t recall a name or date, let it go and focus on the feeling of the moment.”

Make sure the environment is calm

Most importantly, create a calm environment for these activities. “Sensory prompts often work best when done in calm environments, without overstimulation,” Bhagavatula says.

Know that not every experience will be positive

And remember that not every memory will be positive. “Be mindful that not all memories are happy,” Pack cautions. “If you hit a painful one, gently switch to a different photo, song, or topic.”

For families dealing with common dementia behaviors or considering professional Alzheimer’s and dementia care options, reminiscence therapy offers a meaningful way to maintain connection and provide comfort throughout the journey.

When you tap into these memories that are still intact, you’re not just providing therapy — you’re honoring the person your loved one has always been, celebrating their story, and creating moments of joy that benefit everyone involved.

Kristen Mae

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Kristen Mae is a Florida-based author, writer and editor who writes about parenting, relationships, wellness and modern life with honesty and heart. A classically trained musician turned best-selling indie novelist, she is also an experienced content strategist and editor at personal finance website GOBankingRates. Her work appears across major platforms including Lifehacker, The Girlfriend, Grown & Flown, Romper and What’s Up Moms. Kristen is passionate about helping readers feel seen through her essays, reported pieces and fiction. She is currently working on a romantasy trilogy inspired by ancient myth.