The nanny/ sitter I hire will have to be very mature, but also able to play like a child. My children are used to having my world revolve around them, so I would ask that while you are caring for them you do the same. Our ideal caregiver: I need someone with alot of patience and alot of love. I have 4 wonderful children, one of whom has severe autism and needs extra attention. Additional needs include light housekeeping, meal prep, having a reliable car, being comfortable with pets and a non-smoker. Looking for a caregiver for my 8-year-old daughter, 9-year-old daughter, 12-year-old son, and 13-year-old son.