Our eldest has a genius level IQ, which makes him ask and do things a little different. He constantly wants to learn, play and explore and is so sweet and helpful, with around 2/3 meltdowns a day. The youngest is a climber who loves anything his older brother does, octonats and all food. They both aren't super picky, and listen most of the time. Tablet time is limited to an hour. We eat them outside, having fun, doing something. A reliable car, a reliable person, and fully transparency on both ends our a must. Our ideal caregiver: Our 5yo has ADHD and so patient is key. High energy a must, cause they will where you out. I'm going back to work part time, hence seeking help. Additional needs include light housekeeping, having a reliable car, being comfortable with pets and a non-smoker.