My 3-year-old is any typical toddler, mean, happy, doesn't listen some times. My 5-month-old is learning to eat and I would love to continue that even when hes with the caregiver. I'm married, husband works warehousing. He may be home when the caregiver's there but not too long.. Our ideal caregiver: That can deal with multiple babies at once, absolutely patient and loving. I won't have to worry about at all. Feel safe with my children being with them. Additional needs include meal prep, having a reliable car, being comfortable with pets and a non-smoker. Looking for a caregiver for my infant son and 3-year-old son. Flexible start date. My schedule may vary.