Im a mother of three boys. My two grandmothers both suffered from dementia/alzheimers, so I understand how hard it is and how each day can be so different. I have done home health aid part-time for a couple of years now. I know what to expect and enjoy helping. It fulfills my heart. Also, for years I took care of my stepdaughter who was paralyzed from the waist down from a car wreck. Doctors said she would never walk again or have children. She is now walking and just had a beautiful baby girl! Anyways, I would care for your loved ones just as my own.