About who needs care: I am 41 years old but I have a brain of an 4 to 6 years old and I read and write at a teenager level and live with autism, epilepsy, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, and sensory processing differences. I am looking for a stable, trauma-informed, long-term caregiving home where I can live safely, comfortably, and authentically as a fully consenting adult with unique sensory and emotional needs. I am my own guardian and make my own decisions. I communicate through speech and, when I need to, I also use an AAC device. I do best with calm, patient, and consistent people who give me time to think and respond. I want to live in an environment where I am respected and treated as an adult, while still receiving the full support I need each day. I am a gentle and friendly person who feels safest when life follows a predictable routine. Structure helps me stay calm and regulated. I rely on soft clothing, comfort items, and sensory tools for emotional stability and grounding. These are part of my daily life and are supported by my doctor as healthy coping strategies. I do not worry about what others think. My main goal is to live in a way that keeps me calm, safe, and happy. Because of my disabilities, I need full-time caregiving both at home and in public. I need help with dressing, bathing, and hygiene. I need assistance with continence care and regular checks to keep me comfortable and healthy. I also need help with feeding, making sure my meals are safe and soft enough for me to eat. I do not have teeth, so I can only eat soft foods. I enjoy corn and potatoes and I do not eat anything green. I should never be pressured to eat foods that make me uncomfortable. I also benefit from guidance and reassurance when I become tired, confused, or overstimulated. Having consistent routines and clear expectations helps me stay centered and relaxed. I sometimes wear adaptive or sensory-friendly clothing for comfort, both at home and in public. My doctor supports this as part of my care and sensory regulation. It helps me feel secure and grounded. I am proud of the way I live and I do not feel ashamed for needing comfort or support. The best environment for me is one that is quiet, calm, and structured. I do best in homes with soft lighting, gentle voices, and caregivers who respect my routines and boundaries. I like familiar surroundings, calm outdoor spaces, and comforting daily patterns. These help me stay balanced and happy. I hope to find a caregiver or a caring couple who are patient, kind, and trauma-aware. I need people who can provide long-term, full-time care in a safe and stable home. The ideal caregiver communicates clearly, keeps a calm routine, and respects my needs. I need someone who understands that I may require help with personal care, feeding, hygiene, and other daily tasks. I value a compassionate, respectful approach that always includes my consent and preserves my dignity. It takes me time to trust new people. Before making any major decisions, I prefer to visit several times and get to know my potential caregiver or caregivers in a relaxed and safe way. If we both feel comfortable and compatible, I can make arrangements for medical and caregiving coordination. Once trust is built and everything feels right, I am willing to authorize my caregiver to speak with my doctors to help manage my care. If you are an experienced, patient, and trauma-aware caregiver or couple who believes in providing gentle, long-term support, I would love to have a conversation. We can talk about daily care routines, safety needs, and what kind of home environment you provide. Before any agreement, I will plan several visits so that both sides can make sure everything feels right. I am open to relocating for the right caregiving situation. If you would like to learn more or think you might be a good fit, please reach out and tell me about your caregiving experience, your location, and what kind of home life you offer. I look forward to finding a home where I can live peacefully, safely, and with dignity for many years to come. About the care needs: Professionalism as a caregiver Services needed include: transportation, meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, companionship, feeding, bathing / dressing, and mobility assistance.
Mobility Assistance
Bathing / Dressing
Companionship
Feeding
Light Housekeeping
Meal Preparation
Errands / Shopping
Transportation Required
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