About who needs care: Ideally... Make sure he is fed twice per day and offered cleaning. But he has refused a shower for a month. About the care needs: He is difficult. He refuses baths... And help in general. Services needed include: meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, feeding, and bathing / dressing.
Bathing / Dressing
Feeding
Light Housekeeping
Meal Preparation
Errands / Shopping
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