Hello there, I am not typically a child care provider but your need touched my heart. I am a grandmother to an adorable grandson that has very similar issues to your little guy. He is the reason I moved to Derby last year. I am his only babysitter for the most part but we have found one other girl who is wonderful with him. The nights you have listed probably won't work for me but I would be happy to meet him and your family and be an emergency/special occasion backup. His mother my daughter would be a possibility also. Furthermore you live a mile from me. If you are interested in meeting please let me know.