Looking after someone with dementia is a difficult job, but i always remember they were a lively active person one. I have experience of caring for an elderly couple in their own home. The lady just had mobility issues and her husband had dementia mobility issues and bladder/bowel problems. I understand some people become abusive and have experienced that which I'm used to dealing with. I am willing to care for single and couples and live out or in. I have a recent DBS also.