My son is five and has autism. He is in the higher end of the spectrum. My daughter is 3 and is learning to speak. My kiddos are laid back love outside and their cartoons. They do have to be reminded to clean up toys. My son is fully potty trained. My daughter still has accidents. Neither talk the best. They are learning. My son was fully nonverbal now he can express his needs. . Additional needs include being comfortable with pets, having a reliable car.