Seeking care for my husband in his 80's. Services needed: bathing / dressing, meal preparation, medication prompting, mobility assistance, light housekeeping. Looking for someone with 3+ years of experience caring for seniors. Specialized care needs: support for memory care. A little more about my husband: he can be anxious, reserved. Watches TV all day, gets anxious when I am gone, doesn't really think he needs a caregiver so can be resistant, needs help in/out of wheelchair, balance issues. I'm looking for someone who is patient, firm, strong. Friendly but not someone who will be chatting with him all day, strong in case he loses balance, someone who can be firm when I'm not home and he thinks he can send caregiver home. I need someone here so that I can run errands, visit friends. I am no longer comfortable leaving him alone even for short amount of time. Even if I am home I would like someone to help him with his bathroom needs, getting up/down in wheelchair. I am learning that I am not a very good or patient caregiver.