We need a helper to come 2nd and 4th weekends to help my 14-year-old daughter who has cerebral palsy. It is more of a mother's helper position, since our family will be home as well. We have 3 kids (16, 14 and 9) but you would just be focused on my 14-year-old, J.
My daughter is in a wheelchair, but she is just like most other teens. She's funny and loves to laugh and play. She loves to listen to music while she gets ready and she loves her helpers.
J is physically dependent, so you do need to lift her, but you would mostly just facilitate her, playing with her siblings, going on walks, etc. You would also feed her breakfast, help her on her potty chair, change diapers and get her dressed for the day. However, no experience is required, just a willingness to learn about her.