We have 5 children total; 4 of which we co-parent with our ex-husband/ex-wife. We sometimes have our 11 and 11. 5-year-old boys on weekends, but mostly it is just our 4-year-old. Our oldest are in college and are working- they live with their mother. Our ideal caregiver: Our 4-year-old has been recently diagnosed with ADHD and ODD. He is on medication and has made huge improvements in his behavior. We have never hired a babysitter, only relying on our optional teacher workdays and random opportunities from our sister in law. He is incredibly smart, loving, and high energy. I would like to be able to call someone to allow us to have a real date night out. Additional needs include having a reliable car and a non-smoker. Looking for a caregiver for my 4-year-old son and 11-year-old son. Flexible start date.