Our kids are fairly self sufficient now. But they both still have trouble setting the bed some nights and also have some vowel issues. They stain their underwear. They know how to clean themselves up and that weeks you are there they can wear pull ups to bed to make it easier. Otherwise they just need to practice piano / sax/drums and do their homework. And play and have fun ok to visit friends. Our ideal caregiver: Looking for you sitter and child care help while we are gone away for a trip. We plan to go for 2 1/2 weeks. I think my parents could cover the last week. M-Sunday. April 19. But open to having them come for both weeks to April 2-19. But at least April 2-12 would be good start It would be getting them up and out for school. Then after school and bring them to various activities. Then getting them dinner and bed. Weekends are more open and flexible and ok to do outings and activities. Additional needs include meal prep, having a reliable car and a non-smoker. Looking for a caregiver for my 11-year-old son and 12-year-old daughter.