The youngest one is female we have her every other week. The middle age one is male he is great at listening loves to share and love kids. He doesnt get anything sweet just healthy and working on potty training. The oldest is potty trains speaks really good doesnt like to share but loves his sister. They have there own toy room at my house and there not aloud in the dinning room kitchen or bathroom unless the oldest has to go potty. Our ideal caregiver: Has a stern voice but gentle can change diapers and make meals for the kids. . Additional needs include light housekeeping, being comfortable with pets, having a reliable car, a non-smoker. I'm expecting!