They hate nap time so being a really good negotiator for that time would be great. The 2 years old is super feisty but can be very nice if told to be. First one will ask for everything and anything and try to lead on the 2 years old to do something not good so they too will always need attention to what they're doing. The baby likes to scream when sleepy or hungry. Our ideal caregiver: Someone who actually loves children in general and is not only in this for the money.. Additional needs include having a reliable car and a non-smoker.