We have 3 kids and 1 more on the way. Kids are 6, 4, and 2 years old. Our ideal caregiver: I would love for a live in nanny because I need help at mornings, nights, and weekends. My older kids go to school during the day so I wouldn't need much help during school hours.. Additional needs include light housekeeping and a non-smoker. We could use help with structuring activities.