My oldest daughter is 10 going on 16 but tries to be helpful even through her drama. My youngest daughter is trying to see. Our ideal caregiver: Patience is key with my children. My sons need to be reminded every half hour to go to bathroom or they will have an accident on themselves. They seem to hyper focus on play or tablets and just don't notice the accident till someone points it out.. Looking for a caregiver for my 5-year-old son, 7-year-old son, 8-year-old daughter, and 10-year-old daughter. Flexible start date. My schedule may vary.