Our 11-year-old is a homebody who is in his pre teens. He's in that mode of I'm the oldest and likes to do just his things. Our 9-year-old is the sports guy who loves to play with legos, but also likes to show you everything he can do especially if your outside. The 4-year-old little girl is the dancing princess who wants to be involved in anything and everything. Our ideal caregiver: Three kids can be a lot, need patience, but also need someone who is going to take interest.. Looking for a caregiver for my 4-year-old daughter, 9-year-old son, and 11-year-old son. Looking for care Mondays (7-3pm), Tuesdays (7-3pm), Wednesdays (7-3pm), and Thursdays (7-3pm). My schedule may vary.