{"id":6375,"date":"2021-05-19T22:12:05","date_gmt":"2021-05-19T22:12:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/s37407.p1377.sites.pressdns.com\/resources\/tiktok-moms-approach-to-picky-eating\/"},"modified":"2021-05-19T22:12:05","modified_gmt":"2021-05-19T22:12:05","slug":"tiktok-moms-approach-to-picky-eating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/tiktok-moms-approach-to-picky-eating\/","title":{"rendered":"TikTok mom&#8217;s approach to picky eating is riling up parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Parents of picky eaters are always looking for creative ways to get kids to eat, but one mom&rsquo;s viral dinner time tip has some people divided. Darin Nicole, a popular vlogger who posts parenting tips on TikTok, recently shared this straightforward advice for ending food battles: Don&rsquo;t give kids a choice about what they eat.<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\">Darin Nicole says she and her husband make and serve one meal for dinner each night, and if their kids choose not to eat it, they don&rsquo;t get other options. Whatever food doesn&rsquo;t get eaten is left out on the counter for the rest of the evening. The kids can choose to come back to it later or eat it as a late night snack, but they can&rsquo;t ask for other snacks.<\/p><p>&ldquo;They have the option,&rdquo; the mom explains. &ldquo;They don&rsquo;t have to eat it, but they&rsquo;re not having anything else the rest of the night &hellip; That&rsquo;s how it works in this house.&rdquo;<\/p><div class=\"kinsights-embed\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@darin_nicole\/video\/6813454244931276037?sender_device=pc&amp;sender_web_id=6893237198435468805&amp;is_from_webapp=1\"><div class=\"tik-tok-embed\"><blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@darin_nicole\/video\/6813454244931276037?sender_device=pc&amp;sender_web_id=6893237198435468805&amp;is_from_webapp=1\" data-video-id=\"6813454244931276037?sender_device=pc&amp;sender_web_id=6893237198435468805&amp;is_from_webapp=1\"><section><\/section><\/blockquote><p>                <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>            <\/p><\/div><\/div><p dir=\"ltr\">Darin Nicole and her husband say dessert is available for anyone who&rsquo;s cleaned their plate. But if the kids have food left over, &ldquo;whenever we get an &lsquo;I&rsquo;m hungry,&rsquo; they [need to] eat their food that they didn&rsquo;t finish at the table,&rdquo; says Nicole.<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\">The mom&rsquo;s no-nonsense <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/stories\/16684\/moms-sticker-hack-picky-eaters\/\">approach to feeding kids<\/a> has gotten mixed reactions on social media. It was shared by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/GoodMorningAmerica\/posts\/10158027744607061\">Good Morning America<\/a>, and some commenters on the show&rsquo;s Facebook page took issue with the idea of making kids clean their plates to earn treats and refusing to give kids choices about what they eat.<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\">&ldquo;This is why kids grow up resentful,&rdquo; one person writes. &ldquo;I have better things to do than to force and manipulate my kids into eating things they do not enjoy.&rdquo;<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\">Another person argues that we would never expect an adult to eat something they don&rsquo;t want to eat, so we shouldn&rsquo;t do it to children. &ldquo;I would HATE it if someone forced me to eat liver or something I absolutely dislike,&rdquo; they write. &ldquo;Their taste buds change as they get older. My daughter would never eat meat when she was younger, now she enjoys chicken and a cheeseburger.&rdquo;<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\">Other parents agree with Darin Nicole that kids shouldn&rsquo;t be given choices. &ldquo;I&rsquo;m not a short order cook, you eat what I cook,&rdquo; one person writes. &ldquo;I never catered, I never fed nuggets, peanut butter and jelly, nothing. I fixed healthy food and veggies. He only hated pork chops. Big deal. This is why kids grow up to be snowflakes. Stop catering to your kids so much!&rdquo;<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\">The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) advises a flexible approach when it comes to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthychildren.org\/English\/healthy-living\/nutrition\/Pages\/Picky-Eaters.aspx\">picky eaters<\/a>. They suggest offering at least one food you know your child likes at every meal and giving kids a choice between healthy offerings so they feel like they have a say in what they eat.&nbsp;<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\">They also advise against using food as a reward or a punishment, but they do back up Nicole&rsquo;s stance that parents shouldn&rsquo;t make multiple meals if their child refuses to eat. &ldquo;Tell her that this is the meal you&rsquo;ve made for the family,&rdquo; AAP guidelines state. &ldquo;If she doesn&rsquo;t want to eat it, save it for the next meal.&rdquo;<\/p><p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/stories\/3497\/12-tricks-to-fix-a-picky-eater\/\">Picky eating<\/a> is a common problem for a lot of parents, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Just know that whether your child thinks chicken nuggets are an entire food group, or they end up eating last night&rsquo;s dinner for tomorrow&rsquo;s mid-morning snack, you&rsquo;re definitely not going through it alone.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parents of picky eaters are always looking for creative ways to get kids to eat, but one mom&rsquo;s viral dinner time tip has some people divided. Darin Nicole, a popular vlogger who posts parenting tips on TikTok, recently shared this straightforward advice for ending food battles: Don&#8217;t give kids a choice about what they eat. <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/tiktok-moms-approach-to-picky-eating\/\">Read more&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1264,"featured_media":39226,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"enable_toc":false,"care_reviewed_by":0,"care_post_updated_flag":false,"care_updated_date":"","last_update":"2021-05-19","view_count":3833,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"member-type":[3],"vertical":[6,13,11],"platform":[2],"class_list":["post-6375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","member-type-seeker","vertical-children","vertical-kids-health-safety","vertical-news-trends","platform-resources"],"acf":[],"created":"2020-11-10","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6375","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1264"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6375"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6375\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39226"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6375"},{"taxonomy":"member-type","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/member-type?post=6375"},{"taxonomy":"vertical","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/vertical?post=6375"},{"taxonomy":"platform","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/platform?post=6375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}