{"id":3239,"date":"2021-05-19T21:51:43","date_gmt":"2021-05-19T21:51:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/s37407.p1377.sites.pressdns.com\/resources\/what-hilary-duff-does-to-lean-out-deal-wit\/"},"modified":"2021-05-19T21:51:43","modified_gmt":"2021-05-19T21:51:43","slug":"what-hilary-duff-does-to-lean-out-deal-wit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/what-hilary-duff-does-to-lean-out-deal-wit\/","title":{"rendered":"What Hilary Duff Does to &#8216;Lean Out,&#8217; Deal With &#8216;Mom Guilt&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Working with a little one waiting for you at home can bring on a serious case of &ldquo;mom guilt&rdquo; &ndash; and apparently, working in Hollywood doesn&rsquo;t make you immune!<\/p><p>Actress-singer Hilary Duff told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.redbookmag.com\/life\/interviews\/a49028\/hilary-duff-cover-story\/\">Redbook Magazine<\/a> she&rsquo;s working on feeling less guilty about juggling her career with being a mom to her young son, Luca.<\/p><p>&ldquo;I always feel torn or guilty about something. I&rsquo;m not working right now, and at first I stressed about that, like, &lsquo;Oh, I shouldn&rsquo;t stay still this long,'&rdquo; she said in an interview in Redbook&rsquo;s April issue. &ldquo;And that&rsquo;s ridiculous. I have a child; it&rsquo;s totally fine to not be slammed all the time. It feels really good to not be on someone else&rsquo;s schedule &mdash; besides Luca&rsquo;s. I&rsquo;m basically his chauffeur!&rdquo;<\/p><figure class=\"wp-caption\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.kinsights.com\/content\/images\/MichelleDW-201731202031370813.jpg\" alt=\"\"><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image via <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/HilaryDuff\/photos\/a.10150785235509993.460977.19987834992\/10155134998639993\/?type=3&amp;theater\">Facebook<\/a>.<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>Duff has been working since she was 6 years old, when she started out dancing with a touring ballet company and appearing in TV commercials and shows like Disney Channel&rsquo;s &ldquo;Lizzie McGuire.&rdquo; Now says she&rsquo;s trying to find the right balance between work, family and time for herself.<\/p><p>&ldquo;As I get older, I feel more comfortable &lsquo;leaning out,'&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t need to cram every day full, because I can and because I&rsquo;m capable. I have worked my whole life.&rdquo;<\/p><p>One of Duff&rsquo;s methods to help her &ldquo;lean out?&rdquo; A daily gratitude list, mostly about Luca, with entries such as being grateful for the skip in his step.<\/p><p>And although Duff says being divorced was tough at first, it&rsquo;s her new normal.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p><p>&ldquo;Some of my friends tell me, &lsquo;God, it must be so nice, you get a break from your kid because you share him.&rsquo; I&rsquo;m divorced, and it sucks. Well, it did suck for a while; now it&rsquo;s just normal,&rdquo; Duff said. &ldquo;But it&rsquo;s true, I do get a break. I had Luca by myself for a few weeks, no help, when Mike was on the road, and when he got home I was like, &lsquo;He&rsquo;s yours! Bye!'&rdquo;<\/p><figure class=\"wp-caption\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.kinsights.com\/content\/images\/MichelleDW-201730202030912157.jpg\" alt=\"\"><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image via <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BR3gBfNh1I7\/?taken-by=hilaryduff\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>Luca just celebrated his 5<sup>th<\/sup> birthday, with proud mama posting an adorable picture of their &ldquo;Ghostbusters&rdquo; costumes on Monday.<\/p><p>&ldquo;My handsome boy is 5! Happy birthday to the sweetest of all time,&rdquo; Duff wrote, following up an equally as touching post where she called the past 5 years &ldquo;the BEST, hardest, most blessed years of my life.&rdquo;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Working with a little one waiting for you at home can bring on a serious case of &#8220;mom guilt&#8221; &ndash; and apparently, working in Hollywood doesn&#8217;t make you immune! Actress-singer Hilary Duff told Redbook Magazine she&rsquo;s working on feeling less guilty about juggling her career with being a mom to her young son, Luca. &#8220;I <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/what-hilary-duff-does-to-lean-out-deal-wit\/\">Read more&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1072,"featured_media":18380,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"enable_toc":false,"care_reviewed_by":0,"care_post_updated_flag":false,"care_updated_date":"","last_update":"2021-05-19","view_count":2151,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"member-type":[4],"vertical":[6,17],"platform":[2],"class_list":["post-3239","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","member-type-all","vertical-children","vertical-child-care-advice","platform-resources"],"acf":[],"created":"2017-03-20","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3239","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1072"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3239"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3239\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18380"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3239"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3239"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3239"},{"taxonomy":"member-type","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/member-type?post=3239"},{"taxonomy":"vertical","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/vertical?post=3239"},{"taxonomy":"platform","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/platform?post=3239"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}