{"id":222139,"date":"2025-10-01T04:16:03","date_gmt":"2025-10-01T04:16:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/?p=222139"},"modified":"2025-10-01T04:16:07","modified_gmt":"2025-10-01T04:16:07","slug":"daycare-screen-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/daycare-screen-time\/","title":{"rendered":"How can I get my child\u2019s daycare to stop using screens?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The alphabet, songs, outdoor play &mdash; these are all activities that go hand-in-hand with daycare. But what about screen time? In today&rsquo;s digital climate, screens are more prevalent than ever in early education environments (and in some cases, can aid with learning); however, many <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/ECEProfessionals\/comments\/1n9bq1a\/screen_time_at_daycare\/\">parents<\/a> aren&rsquo;t into the idea, and aren&rsquo;t sure how to broach the subject with their child&rsquo;s daycare center.<\/p><p>Although the conversation can feel awkward, it&rsquo;s necessary, notes <a href=\"https:\/\/oprfiws.org\/team\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Yajaira Fulgencio<\/a>, a licensed social worker and the behavioral health director at the IWS Children&rsquo;s Clinic in Oak Park, Illinois. &ldquo;It&rsquo;s important for parents to build good communication with kid&rsquo;s teachers and directors,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;They should be open to asking hard questions and working together to find a solution.&rdquo;<\/p><p>Feel like there&rsquo;s a little too much screen time happening at your child&rsquo;s daycare? Here&rsquo;s how to address the issue.&nbsp;<\/p><div class=\"wp-block-custom-dynamic-list key-takeaways-block\"><h3>Key takeaways<\/h3><div class=\"key-takeaways-container\"><ul><li>Daycares should focus on play and learning, not screens, which can negatively impact development if overused.<\/li><li>Limited, high-quality screen time may be acceptable for young kids, but it shouldn&rsquo;t be the norm. <\/li><li>Parents are encouraged to ask questions, share values and collaborate with staff around screen time rules and tech use.<\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-should-my-child-have-screen-time-at-daycare\" data-toc-id=\"98259911\">Should my child have screen time at daycare?<\/h2><p>Ultimately, no, kids shouldn&rsquo;t be on screens when they&rsquo;re at daycare, says Fulgencio.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Kids should be playing and learning at daycare, she explains, and the best way to do that is &ldquo;by using books, interacting in class and making use of the available materials to learn.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p><p>Additionally, screen time can have a negative effect on development, depending on how it&rsquo;s used, notes <a href=\"https:\/\/newhorizonacademy.net\/about\/leadership\/\">Aimee Fearing<\/a>, vice president of education at New Horizon Academy.&nbsp;&ldquo;Research shows that excessive or passive screen use in early childhood can lead to reduced attention span and <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC8905397\/\">language development<\/a>, increased <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC5823000\/\">sedentary behavior<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC4987096\/\">disrupted sleep patterns<\/a>.&rdquo;<\/p><p>Also, as one parent bluntly put it on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/ECEProfessionals\/comments\/1n9bq1a\/screen_time_at_daycare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Reddit<\/a>, parents aren&rsquo;t &ldquo;paying YouTube,&rdquo; they&rsquo;re paying the school.&nbsp;<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-can-i-address-daycare-screen-time-rules-without-causing-issues\" data-toc-id=\"bbc4df9e\">How can I address daycare screen time rules without causing issues?<\/h2><p>Here&rsquo;s where things get a little tricky. What should you do if your views on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/screen-time-for-kids\/\">screen time<\/a> don&rsquo;t align with the daycare&rsquo;s? Ideally, Fulgencio notes, you&rsquo;ll have addressed this on the front end during your initial visit.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p><p>&ldquo;On your tour of the center, be sure to ask questions about how they fill their days and what tools they use before enrolling your child,&rdquo; she notes. (Most centers have a media use policy, Fearing adds &mdash; ask to review it.)&nbsp;<\/p><p>All that being said, hindsight is always 20\/20. If you didn&rsquo;t get the screen time scoop before signing your child up for daycare, here are some steps to addressing the issue, per Fearing:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Start with curiosity. <\/strong>Don&rsquo;t go in hot. Instead, ask questions. Fearing suggests: &ldquo;Can you tell me how screen time is used during the day?&rdquo;<\/li><li><strong>Share your values.<\/strong> When you&rsquo;re upfront about your personal values &mdash; instead of finger-pointing &mdash; it can make meeting eye-to-eye easier, Fearing notes. She suggests saying something like: &ldquo;We&rsquo;re trying to reduce screen exposure at home and want to align with what&rsquo;s happening at daycare.&rdquo;<\/li><li><strong>Collaborate.<\/strong> If screen time is used and you&rsquo;re against it, Fearing suggests asking if your child can opt out or be offered alternative activities.<\/li><\/ul><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-does-the-type-of-screen-time-make-a-difference\" data-toc-id=\"3f89bc56\">Does the type of screen time make a difference?<\/h2><p>Yes. While screen time at day care should be kept to a strict minimum, quality does matter. &ldquo;When used intentionally and sparingly, screens can support learning,&rdquo; Fearing notes. &ldquo;For example, interactive educational content or video chats with family members can enhance social and cognitive skills.&rdquo;<\/p><p>Lisa Guernsey, author of the book &ldquo;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Tap-Click-Read-Growing-Readers\/dp\/1119091896\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tap, Click, Read: Growing Readers in the World of Screens<\/a>,&rdquo; notes that if and when kids have screen time, parents, caregivers and teachers should consider the Three C&rsquo;s: content, context and the individual child.&nbsp;<\/p><p>In a daycare environment, she notes, screens shouldn&rsquo;t be &ldquo;relied upon to occupy young children.&rdquo; Instead, Guernsey continues, &ldquo;it should be high quality media that&rsquo;s age appropriate, helps develop kids&rsquo; language skills and is co-viewed with educators.&rdquo;<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-much-screen-time-should-kids-have-each-day\" data-toc-id=\"3bbfd1ad\">How much screen time should kids have each day?<\/h2><p>In general, screen time should not take up a big chunk of any child&rsquo;s day &mdash; and the younger the child, the less screen time they should have.&nbsp;<\/p><p>&ldquo;There have been studies showing that children under 2 should not be exposed to any screen time,&rdquo; notes Fulgencio. &ldquo;That said, it can be hard to do this with how prevalent screens, phones and tablets are.&rdquo;<\/p><p>Here&rsquo;s what the<a href=\"https:\/\/www.aacap.org\/AACAP\/Families_and_Youth\/Facts_for_Families\/FFF-Guide\/Children-And-Watching-TV-054.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry<\/a> (AACAP) recommends when it comes to screen time and babies and toddlers:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>18 months. <\/strong>Limit screen use to video chatting along with an adult (for example, with a parent who is out of town).<\/li><li><strong>18-24-months. <\/strong>Screen time should be limited to watching educational programming with a parent or caregiver.<\/li><li><strong>2-5 years old. <\/strong>Limit non-educational screen time to about 1 hour per weekday.<\/li><\/ul><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-should-i-do-if-my-child-s-daycare-can-t-accommodate-my-screen-time-requests\" data-toc-id=\"6ff6ff49\">What should I do if my child&rsquo;s daycare can&rsquo;t accommodate my screen time requests?<\/h2><p>If you&rsquo;ve spoken to teachers about amending their class screen time rules and it&rsquo;s not an option, Fulgencio recommends &ldquo;communicating with upper administration&rdquo; to see if they can help implement change. She also suggests talking with other parents to see if they&rsquo;re having similar issues.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Beyond that, here&rsquo;s what Fearing recommends:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Reinforce healthy habits at home.<\/strong> Prioritize outdoor play, reading and family interaction.<\/li><li><strong>Explore alternatives. <\/strong>&ldquo;If screen use is excessive and non-negotiable, consider another program,&rdquo; Fearing suggests. &ldquo;Look for centers that emphasize minimal screen exposure and active learning.&rdquo;<\/li><li><strong>Get (and stay) involved. <\/strong>If there are opportunities for involvement with the center, seize them. to &ldquo;Volunteer, observe or ask for updates to stay informed about your child&rsquo;s daily experience,&rdquo; Fearing says.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-final-note-on-daycare-screen-time-rules\" data-toc-id=\"91bfd3fd\">A final note on daycare screen time rules<\/h2><p>It&rsquo;s unlikely that any daycare center is going to align with each and every one of your family&rsquo;s rules &mdash; and that&rsquo;s OK. But if it&rsquo;s something that&rsquo;s important to you (and it&rsquo;s at the expense of your child&rsquo;s overall experience), speak up.&nbsp;&ldquo;Parents should always stay in close communication with directors and teachers at their child&rsquo;s daycare center,&rdquo; says Fulgencio, as it makes a richer, more positive experience for everyone.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The alphabet, songs, outdoor play \u2014 these are all activities that go hand-in-hand with daycare. But what about screen time? In today\u2019s digital climate, screens are more prevalent than ever in early education environments (and in some cases, can aid with learning); however, many parents aren\u2019t into the idea, and aren\u2019t sure how to broach <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/daycare-screen-time\/\">Read more&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1273,"featured_media":222140,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"enable_toc":true,"care_reviewed_by":0,"care_post_updated_flag":true,"care_updated_date":"2025-09-30 00:00:00","last_update":"2025-10-01","view_count":114,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1068,1075],"member-type":[3],"vertical":[6],"platform":[2],"class_list":["post-222139","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-daycare","tag-kids-media-tech","member-type-seeker","vertical-children","platform-resources"],"acf":[],"created":"2025-09-30","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222139","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1273"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=222139"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222139\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":222151,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/222139\/revisions\/222151"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/222140"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=222139"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=222139"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=222139"},{"taxonomy":"member-type","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/member-type?post=222139"},{"taxonomy":"vertical","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/vertical?post=222139"},{"taxonomy":"platform","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/platform?post=222139"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}