{"id":1082,"date":"2026-09-08T16:07:59","date_gmt":"2026-09-08T16:07:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/s37407.p1377.sites.pressdns.com\/resources\/should-you-give-your-nanny-a-raise\/"},"modified":"2026-09-08T16:08:16","modified_gmt":"2026-09-08T16:08:16","slug":"should-you-give-your-nanny-a-raise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/should-you-give-your-nanny-a-raise\/","title":{"rendered":"7 reasons to give your nanny a raise (and how much to bump their pay)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Your nanny may feel like a member of your family, but technically, they&rsquo;re a household employee who, at some point, deserves a raise. But what&rsquo;s the protocol around these pay increases? Is a nanny raise in order every year? And if so, how much?<\/p><p>&ldquo;Like in most workplaces, at the end of each year of service, it is customary for nannies to have an annual review and contract renegotiation,&rdquo; explains Michelle LaRowe, lead educator at <a href=\"https:\/\/globalnannytraining.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Global Nanny Training<\/a>. &ldquo;In addition to a cost of living increase, a performance-based merit increase should also be considered. While the cost of living increase can vary year to year, a good rule of thumb is a 2-4% cost of living increase, plus a merit raise of 3-7%, leaving most nannies with a 5-10% annual increase.&rdquo;<\/p><p>Wondering if and when you should give your nanny a raise (and how much)? Here, nanny pros and parents offer insight.<\/p><div class=\"wp-block-custom-dynamic-list key-takeaways-block\"><h3>Key takeaways<\/h3><div class=\"key-takeaways-container\"><ul><li>An annual nanny raise is generally standard, with experts suggesting 5&ndash;10% when combining cost-of-living and merit increases. Raises may also be appropriate when your nanny takes on additional responsibilities, gains new certifications or is being paid below the going rate.<\/li><li>Major changes to your family can warrant a raise, especially when you add a baby or significantly increase your nanny&rsquo;s duties. Driving more, cooking, traveling, helping with homework or taking on extra household responsibilities can all justify higher pay.<\/li><li>A nanny asking for a raise is a good reason to take a fresh look at their compensation and local going rates. If you can&rsquo;t afford an increase, be honest about your situation and consider other benefits, such as additional paid time off or more flexible hours.<\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-when-should-i-give-my-nanny-a-raise\" data-toc-id=\"a18f630c\">When should I give my nanny a raise?<\/h2><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-a-year-has-passed\">1. A year has passed<\/h3><p>In most situations, a nanny raise every year is standard. &ldquo;Many employers choose to give a raise on an annual basis, as part of a performance review process,&rdquo; says Kristen Szapka, founder and owner of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.anannymatch.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">A Nanny Match<\/a> nanny agency in New York City and Boston. Szapka also notes that &ldquo;reviewing compensation at least once a year can help ensure that both parties feel the arrangement is fair and equitable.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>&ldquo;Reviewing compensation at least once a year can help ensure that both parties feel the arrangement is fair and equitable.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p><cite>&mdash; Kristen Szapka, nanny agency owner<\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure><p>During a performance review, Szapka says to consider &ldquo;if the nanny has been doing an exceptional job and has gone above and beyond, a raise is a great way to acknowledge this.<\/p><p>Agreeing with LaRowe, Szapka notes that the average nanny raise per year should be &ldquo;5-10% of their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/how-much-does-a-nanny-cost\/\">hourly pay<\/a>,&rdquo; which is based on both merit (performance), as well as the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ssa.gov\/oact\/cola\/colasummary.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">cost-of-living adjustment (COLA)<\/a>. The former, Szapka says, acknowledges if a nanny has gone &ldquo;above and beyond,&rdquo; and the latter keeps up with inflation and &ldquo;helps the nanny maintain the same standard of living.&rdquo;<\/p><p>It&rsquo;s also worth noting that your location comes into play here, as well. Says Szapka: &ldquo;In New York City, the cost of living has increased significantly over the past couple of years, and we&rsquo;ve seen the average hourly wage increase by about $5 or more since 2020-2021.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p><p>Lora Brawley, 30-year nanny veteran and consultant and trainer at <a href=\"https:\/\/nannycarehub.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Nanny Care Hub<\/a> in Federal Way, Washington, concurs with Szapka, noting that, in the last year, she&rsquo;s seen an increase in standard COLA raises, due to the economy.&nbsp;<\/p><p>&ldquo;Instead of a 2-4% COLA raise, I&rsquo;m seeing 3-6%,&rdquo; she says, adding that most nannies get a COLA raise and a performance raise at the same time, so it feels higher overall. &ldquo;The nannies who are hitting their ceiling with performance raises are still getting a COLA raise,&rdquo; she notes.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Note: A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/a-holiday-bonus-guide-for-your-caregivers\/\">nanny bonus<\/a>, which is, customarily, a one-time gift given at the end of the year, is different from a nanny raise.<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-you-add-more-duties\">2. You add more duties<\/h3><p>&ldquo;When a nanny&rsquo;s job description changes substantially, it&rsquo;s standard for the nanny to receive a raise that reflects their new, expanded job description,&rdquo; Brawley says. &ldquo;There is no standard amount for this type of raise,&rdquo; she adds. &ldquo;The amount depends on how much the employers and the nanny feel the task is worth.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p><p>According to Brawley and Szapka, new duties may include:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Adding a new puppy to the family.<\/li><li>Cooking.&nbsp;<\/li><li>Additional chores.&nbsp;<\/li><li>Traveling.&nbsp;<\/li><li>Helping with homework.&nbsp;<\/li><li>Driving more.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-you-had-a-baby\">3. You had a baby<\/h3><p>&ldquo;When a family adds another child &mdash; a new infant or adopted child &mdash; it&rsquo;s standard for the nanny to receive a baby raise,&rdquo; says Brawley, who explains that the pay increase can range from an extra &ldquo;$2-$5 an hour,&rdquo; depending on how much their duties will increase.&nbsp;<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>&ldquo;When a family adds another child &mdash; a new infant or adopted child &mdash; it&rsquo;s standard for the nanny to receive a baby raise.&rdquo;<\/p><cite>&mdash; Lora Brawley, 30+-year nanny and consultant <\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure><p>A raise might also be in order if there are shifts in child custody agreements. Brawley notes that when a blended family has an extra child living in the household for the summer, &ldquo;the nanny generally receives a raise for the summer months only.&rdquo;<\/p><p><strong>Read more:<\/strong><\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-care-com-resources wp-block-embed-care-com-resources\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\"><blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"2Nwz8kiM2J\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/average-nanny-salary-by-state\/\">Here&rsquo;s the average monthly nanny salary in every state<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; visibility: hidden;\" title=\"&ldquo;Here&rsquo;s the average monthly nanny salary in every state&rdquo; &mdash; Care.com Resources\" src=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/average-nanny-salary-by-state\/embed\/#?secret=OL12sfZak3#?secret=2Nwz8kiM2J\" data-secret=\"2Nwz8kiM2J\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/figure><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-your-nanny-received-new-education-or-certifications\">4. Your nanny received new education or certifications<\/h3><p>If your nanny has undergone professional development, a raise may be in order, Szapka says.&nbsp;<\/p><p>&ldquo;If the nanny has pursued <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/12-nanny-training-courses-and-certifications\/\">additional training or certifications<\/a> that add value to the job, such as child development courses or first aid, a raise is a good way to recognize these efforts,&rdquo; she says.&nbsp;<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-you-re-underpaying\">5. You&rsquo;re underpaying<\/h3><p>&ldquo;If the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/setting-up-nanny-taxes-payroll\/\">nanny&rsquo;s current pay <\/a>is below the going rate for nannies in your area, a raise might be necessary to ensure you&rsquo;re offering competitive compensation,&rdquo; Szapka says, who adds: &ldquo;The best way to retain your nanny is to offer a raise if you&rsquo;re satisfied with their work and want to make sure they will stay with you for a long time. This can be especially important if there&rsquo;s a high demand for nannies in your area.&rdquo;<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>&ldquo;The best way to retain your nanny is to offer a raise if you&rsquo;re satisfied with their work and want to make sure they will stay with you for a long time.&rdquo;<\/p><cite>&mdash; Kristen Szapka<\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure><p>Jen T., a mom of two in Westfield, New Jersey, didn&rsquo;t realize she was underpaying her nanny until she found out what other families in the area were paying.&nbsp;<\/p><p>&ldquo;I learned we were paying about $3 an hour less than other families in our area with the same amount of kids,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;I felt terrible and adjusted her rate right away. We&rsquo;re lucky we didn&rsquo;t lose her.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p><p>To find out the going rates of nannies in your area, check out our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/cost\">Cost of Care Calculator<\/a>.<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-they-ask-for-one\">6. They ask for one<\/h3><p>If your nanny asks for a raise before the one-year mark or without an increase in duties, there&rsquo;s a good chance you&rsquo;ve been underpaying them, says Brawley, or their salary doesn&rsquo;t match the going rates in your area.<\/p><p>&ldquo;In these cases, the nanny has generally asked for less than they need or less than they feel they deserve during the negotiations,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;This happens a lot when they take a job, get into the nanny groups and hear from other nannies.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p><p>Another potential reason a nanny may ask for a raise before you feel they&rsquo;re due is their personal circumstances, Szapka says.&nbsp;<\/p><p>&ldquo;Has there been a significant change in their personal circumstances that might necessitate a raise, such as a sudden increase in rent or unexpected medical expenses?&rdquo; she notes. &ldquo;While you are not obligated to accommodate these changes, it might be worth considering, especially if you value their work and want to maintain a good relationship.&rdquo;<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-your-nanny-is-the-best\">7. Your nanny is the best<\/h3><p>While there are a number of concrete reasons for a nanny raise, perhaps the most important one is that you love them and they deserve one &mdash; and of course, the longer your nanny is with you, the deeper your appreciation for them.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Says Szapka: &ldquo;A nanny becomes more valuable as they gain a deeper understanding of the family&rsquo;s routines and expectations and form stronger bonds with the children.&rdquo;<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-if-i-can-t-afford-to-give-a-raise\" data-toc-id=\"a0b3b318\">What if I can&rsquo;t afford to give a raise?<\/h2><p>If you truly can&rsquo;t afford a raise due to your financial situation, Szapka says to &ldquo;explain the reasons why and when they might expect a review of their salary.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p><p>Also, make sure they feel seen and valued, even if you can&rsquo;t meet their request right now. &ldquo;Think of other benefits or perks that may make their job easier or more fulfilling, such as flexible hours or additional paid time off,&rdquo; she says.<\/p><p>For ideas, check out these: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/11-nanny-job-benefits\/\">nanny job benefits families should consider offering<\/a>.<\/p><p>Overall, Brawley adds, make sure you&rsquo;re a great employer.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do nannies get a raise every year? 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