Theoretically, a live-in nanny often sounds great for busy families — thoughtful care at the ready and no child care drop-off to factor into your morning routine. But hiring a live-in nanny is a massive commitment (much more so than a live-out nanny), so careful consideration is essential before officially signing on to such an arrangement. <\/p>
“It’s important to look beyond schedule coverage alone when weighing the option of a live-in nanny,” explains Angela Sager<\/a>, owner of Kensington Nanny & Home Services, in South Florida and Dallas. “Live-in arrangements work best when the nanny has a private bedroom and private bathroom, along with a home layout that allows for physical separation from the family’s primary living spaces.”<\/p> In addition to the home set-up, Sager continues, families should also consider whether their routines, communication style and expectations align with sharing their home long-term.<\/p> Aren’t sure if a live-in nanny is right for your family? Here’s what Sager and other experts recommend considering before making a commitment.<\/p> From budget to house set-up and more, be sure to weigh these factors before deciding on a live-in nanny<\/a>. <\/p> The reality is, not every home is appropriate for a live-in nanny, so considering your house layout is one of the first factors to consider.<\/p> “This arrangement works best in larger homes, where the layout allows for true physical separation between the nanny’s living space and the family’s primary living areas,” explains Sager.<\/p> Find a live-in nanny<\/a><\/p> “Professional live-in nannies require their own private bedroom and private bathroom,” she continues. “No professional nanny is going to negotiate on this point.”<\/p> When a home allows for this level of separation, it lets the nanny fully step away from their role at the end of the day. “Without it, boundaries are harder to maintain and burnout is more likely over time,” notes Sager.<\/p> “Live-in nannies generally work up to 40 hours per week. Additional hours must be paid as overtime. Housing can be a benefit… but it generally isn’t considered a substitute for wages.”<\/p>— Angela Sager, household staffing expert<\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure> Olivia Fountain<\/a>, director of operations at the domestic staffing agency, Household Staffing, in Winter Park, Florida, notes that the biggest benefit of having a live-in nanny<\/a> — having them there all the time — can also be one of the hardest. <\/p> Fountain notes that, while live-in nannies have helped families she’s worked with over the years immensely, the “lack of privacy” issue is something she hears often. “Live-in nannies of course have their own lives, but families need to realize they’re probably not going to be home alone very often,” she says.<\/p> Steven Laitmon<\/a>, owner and CEO of The Calendar Group, a household staffing agency in Westport, Connecticut, puts it more bluntly, saying: “If you don’t have a large residence or a separate space for the nanny, it could feel very intrusive to have somebody else living with you.”<\/p> Even though live-in nannies are provided with room and board, they don’t work for a lower rate. “Most live-in nannies charge a normal rate<\/a> and often do not discount their rate because it’s live-in,” explains Stephanie Fornaro<\/a>, founder and CEO of Hello, Nanny, a boutique agency in California and Texas.<\/p> “The room and board is not a benefit to the nanny unless they have a separate detached living space that is not inside of the family home,” she continues.<\/p> Something else to consider: Live-in nannies are not paid on a salary. They are hourly employees, and overtime is required. <\/p> “Live-in nannies generally work up to 40 hours per week,” Sager notes. “Additional hours must be paid as overtime. Housing can be a benefit of the role, but it generally isn’t considered a substitute for wages and cannot be used to reduce pay.” (Live-in nannies generally do not pay rent<\/a>.)<\/p> Other potential expenses, notes Fountain, are food, a phone and use of the family car, which many families provide. <\/p> Read more:<\/strong><\/p>Key takeaways<\/h3>
Factors to consider before hiring a live-in nanny<\/h2>
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Lack of privacy<\/h3>
Budget and benefits<\/h3>