You are doing the right thing and you are blessed to find out NOW about their unethical behaviors rather than later. It's a requirement and the law to pay income tax and anyone who wants to avoid that ..it's a STONG indicator that they may have other behaviors... more
Writing cards to loved ones, jointly decorating their homes with either handmade crafts (snowflakes are always fun) or their personal collection, singing seasonal songs, making and smelling the delicious apply & cinnamon cider to usher int he season, and hand massage with a seasonal scented lotion!
Their are Companion Caregivers, Friendly visitors ( both individuals and agencies) that are experts in helping and they are experts in helping have those discussions. Perhaps you can give him a gift of a cleaning crew or individual and if they are truly experienced with a vibrant personality and a focus... more
Hand lotions with a scent that is of importance to them and brings back memories ( Lilly of the valley, lavender etc) Warm sock or slippers with traction/non skid or slipping support Weighted blankets- Wonderful support for those with dementia Earphone and an iPod with sound reducing noise to use... more
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