Your authority lies in your ability to enforce the rules. Set clear boundaries with clear consequences that make sense. ONLY set consequences that you can and will actually enforce! If you say something will happen and then it doesn't, the kids will remember that and then they won't... more
I don't know what people charge, but I would say that volunteer experience is perfectly valid and worth including.
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