The bedbugs are microscopic organisms, which means they cannot be seen with naked eye, but using a microscope. Unless they have felt them while sleeping, they won't know.
An oil diffuser only expels a sense to satisfy smell. An air purifier actually purifies the air and is commonly used by people who has respiratory problems/diseases. Purifying the air can help you to breath a cleaner air, thus you breath better.
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