I like to have the basics with me excluding equipment unless they do not have, however if they require a specific cleaning product then i feel they should provide it or reimburse you.
Just respectfully tell her you know what and how to clean. It is distracting to be micr managed. If after i am done you can inspect.
Ask for references.
By all means yes they should let you know of bedbugs or any health issue
I dont believe so
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