How do you encourage an elder to do something necessary, like getting u p and walking to the bathroom, when they don't want to do it?
I am sorry for the stress you are experiencing. I have worked in geriatric care for 40 years. Good help is very hard to find and all help is costly. I live in NYS. the average cost for a nursing home is $30-40,000/month and no one gets individualized... more
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