Probably not an oil diffuser and a air purifier Might be overkill. But I believe they do two different things so probably not.
I believe that you should full on address the situation. If she is willing to pay more for the extra services that you are providing then that would be a different story of course. But, you should not have to feel taken advantage of while you are working nobody wants... more
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