I simply read the responsibilities listed & decide what I want. If we meet I tell them what I want and what they will get for that price.
I love it when the child gives a spontaneous hug declaring their vibes.
As a new nanny you might find it very useful to keep you organized. I have always had a "Granny Bag" & found that worked quite well for me. You can google the things to put in it & make it unique for you. ENjoy
I would have already had an in depth conversation with the parents concerning their methods. (I had a difficult child) If their methods aren't working a simple, "I really like you but this behavior is keeping us from having fun." Then wait it out.
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