When Is It OK to Quit?
Is it ever okay to quit? We all probably grew up hearing "Winners never quit, and quitters never win." Maybe some of our parents even said it to us growing up, as we came up against challenges that were difficult or activities we didn't like.
But does it still apply? Care.com took a closer look at how modern families view quitting and asked four of our favorite mom bloggers: When is it OK for your child to quit? Though they share a belief that quitting something for the wrong reasons never wins, they gave us some tips on how to handle quitting in your family, as well as a few ideas of how quitters can actually win.
"I love quitting! At least when I'm quitting something that isn't making me happy. It is very liberating and empowering to admit that something just isn't fulfilling for you and to let go of it." -- Amber Dusick, Parenting: Illustrated With Crappy Pictures
"Don't worry that this is the make-or-break decision that will determine who they are, what they like, and what they will become...sometimes an activity that seems uninteresting at one point becomes extremely interesting later on (and vice versa). And decisions aren't forever."
--Lenore Skenazy, Free Range Kids
"I encourage my own kids to test their limits, because even if they don't succeed, it's a huge accomplishment if you show up and try your best. Quitters don't ever experience all that life has to offer because they play it safe every step of the way." -- Beth Feldman, Role Mommy
"Give something the time it deserves to evolve with your goals in mind. Evaluate the progress. Reset your approach if needed. Then, decide what to do next. Quitting, or "moving on," may be the best option that fits the situation." -- Stephanie Lema, Be Positive Mom