What Is the Difference Between a Babysitter and a Nanny?

Learn what type of sitter you need to hire to best fit your care needs.

babysitter playing with two boys

Part-time nanny, live-in nanny, mother's helper. There are endless caregiver names posted all over caregiving websites (like Care.com!). It can be confusing for both families looking to hire a sitter and caregivers searching for jobs. Here's a look at how we would define the roles.

But no matter what name you choose, one thing remains the same -- caregivers have the great responsibility of supervising children in a way that is healthy and safe. And hopefully everyone has fun in the process.

What Is a Babysitter?
Generally, babysitters care for children of any age who are in need of supervision for a few short hours. Most sitters will work either by specific occasion or on a regular schedule (after-school babysitters, date night babysitters and weekend babysitters are common). Their main tasks are watching the kids, playing with them and maybe putting them to bed. Many babysitters are trained in basic skills like CPR and first aid. They usually work for hourly rates, but may be paid extra if they agree to handle additional services such as cooking, tutoring and light housekeeping. It's important to discuss expectations for the job during the interview process. Learn about typical babysitting duties by reading What Responsibilities Does a Babysitter Have? »

What Is a Nanny?
A nanny is someone who is fully invested in a child's development and well-being. Generally, a nanny will care for children full-time while both parents work. It's a nanny's responsibility to create daily schedules and engage in activities to ensure healthy mental, physical and emotional growth in the children they care for. Most nannies will be tasked with preparing meals, helping with household work (dishes, laundry, etc.), driving the children to and from activities and assisting with homework.

Many nannies have their own place of residence (and are called live-out nannies), but there are some nannies who live with the family (called live-in nannies or au pairs). To learn more, read All About Au Pairs »

Typically, nannies have more responsibilities and duties than a babysitter does (and, because of that, a bigger salary). In addition to basic safety classes, they may have had advanced child care training or many years of nanny experience. Often, nannies earn a weekly salary (based on hourly expectations), have taxes deducted from their paychecks and work year-round for a family. It's expected that nannies receive at least two weeks of paid vacation and earn holiday pay as well.

Nannies often become part of the family, bonding with the children in a different way than parents do. Sure, nothing can replace Mom or Dad, but children will bond with that special someone who sings with them at music class, teaches them to use the potty and drives them to and from soccer practice. Some families consider their nannies co-parents or partners in parenting, getting info from their nannies on their child's development and interests or asking their nannies to help their kids cope with losses and stress.

Because the job of a nanny is much like that of a parent, most families and nannies work together to create a nanny contract that lays out all terms and conditions of the job, including vacation time, sick days and much more. To learn more about what's included in nanny contracts, read Do You Need a Nanny Contract? »

What Is a Part-Time Nanny?
Some families need a mix of babysitter and nanny. They need someone to care for their kids a few hours a week (maybe only Monday through Wednesday or only after school). But they want a caregiver who will be more involved that a typical babysitter. A part-time nanny is usually the answer. This option can provide the best of both worlds for families trying to juggle responsibilities.

>>Have more babysitting questions? Check out the main Babysitting FAQs.

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Comments (7)
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Rebecca R.
While i agree with the article, it needs to be pointed out that most families would still rather pay the lower wages while demanding the moon, sun, and stars. It also needs to be pointed out that some families actually resent any bond made between a nanny and their child.
Posted: August 20, 2012 at 12:30 PM
Alyssa F.
This answers my questions I had about "babysitters" and "nannies". I pretty much knew what the differences were, but this pointed out a few other things I didn't know. Thank you!
Posted: August 22, 2012 at 3:23 PM
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Kimberly N.
I had always been confused about the differences between babysitters and nannies. I thought that the terms were interchangeable. It's nice to now know the difference and know what is expected of each :)
Posted: October 24, 2012 at 2:29 PM
LoveAllieKayy
I've been working with a family for about 9 weeks now, where I pick up the children from school and watch them for 4 hours. This occurs about four days a week. I'm not sure if I would be concidered a "nanny" or a "babysitter". I feed them, drive them to the park, pick them up from school and clean up after them as well as tidy up the rest of the house. What would I be concidered?
Posted: October 25, 2012 at 9:50 PM
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Darcy V.
I just accepted an offer titled "babysitter" and soon decided to suggest switching the title to "nanny". The hours are from early in the morning to late in the evening 3x a week and then any extra times throughout the week as one of the parents is on call. I was cleaning up after our days of arts and crafts, planning the day and meals, and playing make believe as well as investing in the psychology of the child through the stresses of social acceptance, death, and divorce. What makes the leap from babysitter to nanny is first the hours, then the housework, and as a nanny you are really treating the child with discipline and love instead of leaving the issue to be dealt by the parents. That's my experience, anyways.
Posted: January 07, 2013 at 12:39 PM
Toni C.
How can a parent resent a bond between a nanny and a child? What kind of person can care for your kids for up to 12 hours a day, 5 days per week or more and not have an attachment? If a person can care for a child and not have a bond I would not want that person caring for my children. I have been with the same kids for almost 5 years (the smallest one was only an infant and will be starting kindergarten) in the fall, and I love them like my own kids. They call my mom gramma, and my son their big brother because he has grown up with them. I cannot imagine it being any other way.
Posted: February 14, 2013 at 7:37 PM
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Angela C.
While I agree with you Toni, some parents still find it hard to share. They are conflicted about how they should feel. At least that is my experience with my charge. I know they understand the bond we have, but they cannot help but wish it was them sharing some of the things we do with them. This is especially true with an only child or a mother who would rather be home. I love my children as if they were my own. But I also know there are limits to my acceptance into the family. I try not to cross the line. That is for my own sake as well as the child's emotional well being.
And to respond to those Nannies allowing themselves to be called babysitters, it comes down to this. Almost anyone can babysit. It takes a special person to be a nanny and do it well. I have had a babysitter for my own children before. You get what you pay for. If you want someone to really be invested in caring for your child and additional duties around the home than you should be willing to pay for it.
Posted: February 19, 2013 at 12:11 PM
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