Taking Care of a Newborn

Though they seem oh-so-delicate, newborn babies are actually quite sturdy. Still, you'll need to handle them properly to ensure their safety -- and your peace of mind.

Holding

Holding the baby is a great way to bond. Keep in mind:

• Support her head and neck. One of the easiest ways to do this is by holding her in the crook of one arm, with the other arm wrapped in front to secure her.
• Do NOT shake or jostle the baby. Little necks aren't strong, and if you let her head fall or jerk, you can hurt her.

Crying

You'll eventually learn what each of the baby's cries mean. If you're at a loss, here are some tricks to try:

• Rock her gently in your arms
• Sing, talk, or play music. A Reader's Digest study found that babies respond well to slow reggae singers, such as Bob Marley. The songs have roughly 60 to 80 beats per minute, just like your heart.
• Take her in for a ride in the stroller or car.
• Burp her frequently.

Diapers

• Change diapers as soon as they're soiled.
• If the baby gets diaper rash, it might be worth considering a switch to all-natural diapers, such as Tushies, which are free of irritating latex and gels.
• Ask the pediatrician to recommend an ointment if the rash persists.
• Wipe from front to back, not the other way around.

Sleeping

• Keep the lights low while you're trying to put her to sleep.
• Keep nighttime diaper changes as short as possible.
• Don't let baby take long daytime naps if she's not sleeping well at night.
• Take steps to prevent Sudden Infant Death Syndrome:
• Put baby to sleep on her back.
• Don't put fluffy, plush toys in the crib.
• Use a firm mattress.

The bottom line

You will, eventually, get the hang of this. If you're concerned, call the pediatrician and talk to other moms -- even your own.